Welcome to Our World
Welcome to ‘The Living Without a Script’ podcast, hosted by Candice and Gene, a married couple with over 16 years of companionship and both diagnosed with late-onset AuDHD (Autism and ADHD).
This first episode introduces their journey, how they discovered their diagnoses, and their mission for the podcast. They delve into their struggles and triumphs in communication, their approach to managing life on the neuro-spicy spectrum, and how they aim to share their experiences and insights to help and entertain others. The hosts also discuss their personal relationship, therapy, coping mechanisms, and their collective endeavor to create an authentic platform for discussing mental health, relationships, and everyday challenges. Expect humor, tangents, and a lot of honest dialogue.
Timeline
Our Neuro-Spicy Journey
We’ve both been on quite the journey, discovering more about our diagnoses of autism and ADHD (AuDHD). These revelations came later in life but brought a sense of validation and understanding to our quirks and everyday experiences. Diagnosed just a couple of years ago, we’ve now got quite the story to tell of our lives, communication struggles, and the unexpected joys found in shared experiences.
We laugh, we cry, and now, thanks to the podcast, we share it all with you. Whether it’s tackling the ups and downs of communication or deciphering each other’s idiosyncrasies, we’re here to spill the beans.
How We Met
Once upon a time, a love story unfolded over cars and the internet. We met through a friend from a car website, and the rest, as they say, is history. Adventures through New Jersey (Yes, those bodega days) and a fondness for both cars and spontaneity helped our relationship flourish into what it is today—a marriage rooted in mutual understanding.
Embracing the Unexpected
Our podcast is our adventure. It’s a place where we can explore life’s surprises, from the burden of masking behaviors from our neurotypical counterparts to sharing honest stories of marriage dynamics. Without sugar-coating our tale, we delve into the challenges and triumphs that make our marriage unique.
Podcast Purpose
While our podcast finds its groove, it’s primarily a project to improve our communication, candidness, and understanding. We share insights on mental health, the importance of therapy, and the struggles and triumphs that come with living with neurodivergence. If you join us, you might leave with a lesson or at least a chuckle.
Reflecting on Communication
When it comes to maintaining a thriving relationship, transparency is key. Gene and I found that honesty, even if delivered bluntly, strengthens our bond. Like many couples, we’re constantly navigating the balance between individual needs and shared experiences.
What’s Next?
As we continue to podcast, we’ll delve into the funny, the serious, and the absolutely random. From discussing life’s peculiarities to sharing our profound love for pizza, cooking, gaming, and, yes, even the wondrous rainbow dildo stories, there are laughs and wisdoms aplenty to be shared.
Join the Spicy Adventure
Our episodes drop every two weeks, focusing on everything from mental health advocacy to lighthearted banter. So, whether you’re on a neurodivergent journey yourself or just curious about life unscripted, join us as we share the laughter and lesson of living without a script.
Thanks for stopping by! We hope to entertain, enlighten, and maybe even inspire a little. Stay tuned for more shared escapades and remember to stay spicy, my friends!
Catch up with us on socials and let us know your thoughts or topics you’d love us to tackle next. Until then, keep living outside the lines and embracing the unexpected!
